Thursday, November 16, 2017

I Love You a Million Erzgebirge Christmas Times! -- November 12

Mommy!! 
Sounds like a crazy week with the boys! That makes me so happy that you got to go out there and see them And with grandma too! It looks like you had such a fun time! Someone said Pablo was there too, did he fly out with you or does he live there now? Conner’s cat is so dang cute! Did you have an allergy problems? Dang its cute.

Eek go Logan! And Tanner! I cheer on the boys too even though I’m not there! It sounds like you just had the greatest trip! I’M SO JEALOUS YOU WENT TO A VOCAL POINT CONCERT. I love them! I listen to them all the time out here. [Logan was in a big ballroom dance competition and Tanner had several hockey games, both as a player and as a goalie that we went and watched! MOM]

That is so so so sad about ML. I totally remember him from summer term (how could I not?! He was pretty cute😉)! That really makes my heart hurt too, nobody should have to experience that. He probably doesn’t remember me, but I totally wish I could send him a little encouraging email or something. It may be really hard now, but he is being prepared for something even better. Perhaps Heavenly Father was actually saving him from further heartbreak in the future. Either way, I hope that he turns to family and his Savior, and not away. As I've been talking to people that go through hard times, the only thing that will make it worse is by thinking that you don’t need the Savior to lean on. He is ready and willing to help you, if not just comfort you through it. It’s like when I’m sad and you hug me; why would I not take that offer?! 😁 Oh wow, that is so difficult to go through though. I’m glad he has friends and especially Logan to lean on. Logan is a good guy. I'll put him in my prayers too though :(

I’m so excited for you to keep on working at the temple: in your new temple dress! Super cute! Send me a picture!

So yes, I won’t keep you waiting any longer, I'm getting transferred! I'm going to Elmshorn! Hee hee yes, I think it’s a funny name too. It doesn’t even translate into German. It's just north of Hamburg, so on Wednesday I will be traveling for a little over 7 hours! But yes... Let me tell you everything that I'm thinking: I'm excited and incredibly sad at the same time. Yeah, the sad feelings have kind of taken over this weekend; Zwickau just feels like home out here! Change is scary! I LOVE these people here! On the other hand, I am very excited. This was Sister Bagnoud's training area, so I've heard quite a bit about it already! It's going to be completely different than Zwickau, and the south in general. The language, food and culture are as different as going from Alabama to Oregon! Apparently, it's like the perfect ward to be in. What I know is that they love speaking English and they love the missionaries! I was a bit frightened to find out that we have eating appointments 5 days out of the week and they feed you a TON! Oh boy, yeah that scares me. We will see. Something funny, my new companion, Sister Decker, is a vegetarian! She said that the ward is super accommodating with food allergies and preferences, so let's hope it’s all okay! I'm really excited to work with Sister Decker, I've heard of her and she was in Sister Grisham's group! I really wanted to serve with someone younger, so I'm grateful that worked out. Other than that, I don't know a ton about the area other than we will be super  busy and I love it! Oh, and it's really close to the North Sea, so it’s going to be COLD! And we will be biking since it’s so flat, so that will be a fun change!

As much as all of those things are going to be really fun, my heart is super heavy. I do NOT want to leave these people. They are my heart and soul and I do feel like I gave them everything I could. I wish I could stay, but it’s inevitable that I will go sometime. Sunday was the WORST though. I was already sad with Sister Grisham (don’t even get me started with her, she’s like my other half) but then came the ward. I laid a bit low because I didn't really want it announced, but I must have told the one person I shouldn't have- the conductor of the meeting. I was asked to give the opening prayer and then afterward he announced that I would be transferred. I kid you not the entire room gasped. He started thanking me for all the work I did and how much the ward loved and appreciated me. It’s was embarrassing and really sweet at the same time, I didn’t know what to do but cry. Then he’s just like, “Please share your testimony with us!" and sat down. Haha I had tears all over my face, but I said okayyyyy and got up. I got up to the podium and looked out and saw the ward and my heart just hurt. I was filled with so much love, because I really used my energy to get to know them and share the gospel with them as well. It took me a good 15 seconds to start talking (which is totally not me because I pretty much never stop talking with them). My shoulders slumped, and I just simply said that I had a testimony of my Savior, Jesus Christ. I shared that I have grown so much in just this short amount of time, and how much love I have for my Savior. He is the one that makes this work go, and I am so grateful I get to be a small instrument in making it happen. I shared that this ward meant everything to me, and that I loved all of them. I told them that the missionary work is wonderful, and they really are going to see miracles here. It felt very powerful to me and I'm glad that I got a chance to share my testimony with them, it really strengthened my faith and love for my Savior. 

After this though, everyone and their niece came up to say goodbye. They all invited us to come over and say goodbye, it was really cute. Sadly, there are only 24 hours in the day, and goodbyes have to end sooner or later. I still haven't said goodbye to a couple of them, the hardest ones being Janina and Jared. Just thinking about saying goodbye makes a lump in my throat. That is going to be so hard. But hey, it’s not forever, because I will totally be seeing those hooligans again! We had a really fun time together last night and ate my requested abendbrot. We went upstairs, and they asked the normal, wonderful questions they have every week before we get into the lesson. Then they just asked me to share a spiritual thought and it was a good time, but I will eventually have to say good bye tomorrow. I don't want to at all but it's going to be okay, we'll meet again :) (Btw, I think like half of this email is like me just pep talking myself).

Other than that, it was just a normal busy week! We started meeting with a new investigator, so I'm very hopeful that it will progress well! She's a referral from a member, so those always tend to go better. We shall see!

Friday night was super cool, Markus and Antoine invited us over for dinner again! We are totally homies now. I may have already told you this, I forget, but he asked us to study the question "Do you think God still punishes His children?" I totally thanked Markus for asking this question because it sparked the BEST comp study for Sister Grisham and I! We searched the scriptures, and I had like, revelation while I was sleeping. But all in all, we all pretty much came to the same answer and it was a really spiritual night. I love talking about the gospel!

Oh, just one last thing, I have to elaborate on something I said in my weekly email. The surprise that Bishop and his wife gave me. I toned it down over email, but yesterday was really, really hard. I just get attached to people and I don't necessarily like change when I'm really happy. But, the surprise was one of the most special things I think anybody has ever done for me! They took that huge, fragile thing out of their cellar weeks before they had to use it, and lit it just so that I could see it before I left! Bishop also loves the organ (because he can play with gusto, that’s what he tells me!), and played really beautiful Christmas music. I never even considered to take a picture because I didn’t want to take away from this moment at all. The picture I will send you is actually a bit later, when I asked him to play a random song, so I could take a picture and save the memory. But the last song he played before I took the picture was "Homeward Bound". It’s my favorite song! Sister Renkewitz and Grisham just sat and listened (well, G was crying like c’mon girl get it together, I’m the one that always cries!!), and I sang my favorite song while Bishop played. I will never forget that night. He knew it was my favorite song too, because he's played it for me quite a few times and even gave me the sheet music. Oh man, oh man, am I going to miss this ward. After we talked, and right before we were about to leave, I kept getting this prompting. I had my fears about leaving, and I just felt prompted over and over again to ask Bishop for a blessing before I left. I didn't know if it was allowed, so I wasn't sure I should ask. Then finally I just felt the prompting one more time (getting a prompting more than one time is a sure sign you need to follow it!) and I asked him if he could give me a blessing. He said of course! It was a beautiful blessing, and everyone was in tears at the end. It really comforted me. He said that I may not understand why I am going where I am going for a month, but I will know. He said that I shouldn't be nervous, they would welcome me warmly. He said that Heavenly Father will always provide a way for me to accomplish His work. Then, he ended with a blessing that I would forever remain in the hearts of the members here. I'm glad that I asked him for one. I may not be completely calm and anxious-free, but it was indeed very, very comforting. I don't feel that I did anything special to this ward but just give them all of my love. I can see why a lot of missionaries don't, because it makes it horribly hard to leave when the time comes. But hey, I'd rather love and experience a bit of sadness than not love at all. I’m going to give Elmshorn all of my love too, I can't wait to meet them.

Well Mutti, that’s about it. I'm alive and happy. I’m learning and growing. I will have interviews later next week, so I should definitely receive your package by then. I’m excited to read those letters! Have a wonderful rest of your time in Utah!

I love you a million Erzgebirge Christmas Times!
Love, Sister Macey Ingalls

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