Thursday, November 16, 2017

I’m So Glad You Taught Me How to Work Hard - November 5

MOMMY MOMMY MOMMY!! 
As totally fun as today was, it was really strange not getting to write you yesterday! {Pday was changed to Tuesday in order to attend the temple – MOM]

EEEKKKK I'm so so so excited about this Christmas letter thing! I'm certain that you are like the most thoughtful person in the world. I just LOVE you! I can't believe you put that all together just for me. Thank you for doing all of that just so that I can have a Happy Christmas! I still think the best thing I could receive is a skype call from you!! I always tell people that my Mom and I love talking, and we basically start the next sentence before the last one is over because we just kind of know where the conversation is going. And we are both the type that think out loud. I'm so excited to talk to you in just a little over a month! But about the package, if you sent it last week, I would think that it would get here this week or the next, which is totally fine. We have a 4 week transfer from November 15thish to December 15thish, so we will definitely have interview and/or zone conference the before the first week of December, where I can get those letters. I’ll make sure to look for it extra hard and try my best to get it before December! I am so excited about that, and excited to see who wrote a letter! Do I need to open them in a certain order or do I just get a Christmas card every day! Oh oh oh I’m excited! Totally do not worry at ALL about the Christmas sweets, I don’t mind at all! That totally made my day knowing you tried, thank you so much! As for the pants, those will be an awesome surprise for when I get home! :)

Woah, that concert [Vocal Point] looked like fun! I still can’t believe you went, we never even went to a concert together! Maybe that'll have to change. Except by then MoTab will be the only acceptable thing to me, so a good old night of hymns sounds good, right? ;-) Man, about the future son in law.... No. Boys still have cooties sorry!

I'll answer your questions right now!

LOL MY HAIR. No, its not even but its fineeeeee. Its healthy and I know Grandma will help me out afterwards. Yes and no, towards my feelings with it. I love how easy it is to wash and dry, but duhhhh longer hair is prettier. I totally want to curl it but I don’t really know how to at this length and the one time I did, it felt out in an hour! Grr!

Yes and no with the glasses. I wore them that day for my Grisham costume because she wears them, but I’ve been wearing them for church classes and zone conference when I need to look at the board! The world is so much clearer with them on its weird!

My skin is doing just fine!! I mean yeah here and there I'll get a blemish, but nothing very big or dramatic. I’ve been really blessed! I don’t touch up any of my pictures haha I wish I had that capability!

Okay this is a German thing- they always serve you drinks in a glass. Whenever you go over to someone’s house, I always have to have a drink or its rude. I usually ask for water (I love the bubbly water now! Normal is still the best though) but this lady just gave us this. It tastes like Pepsi so I thought nothing of it (silly me growing up Mormon thinking Pepsi and Coke are normally caffeine free haha). I don’t drink soda though, it’s still gross to me, but I was being polite.

Oh speaking of money, I have none to send your Christmas package haha! It’s been sitting in my living room for a week now, and I really need to send it. Its stuffed full so it might cost a pretty penny but it’s so worth it for my family! I’m so excited for you to get these gifts, I’m giving you no hints in advance!!!! :) could you transfer some of my emergency money into my account so I can send it please? Thank you!

This week was so awesome, I don’t even know how I could write it all down. I changed up the game, and tried to push myself to post auf Facebook more! Our mission president lovingly suggested (like all good ones do!) that we need to be using the tools we are given or else we need to give them back. Aye aye captain! I've posted little quotes every day! What do you think? I've really liked doing them and have gotten great responses! I’m so glad that I can use Facebook for the wonderful purpose of missionary work and spreading the gospel, its truly a blessing.

Our day was a little crazy because of going to the temple (starting at 4:30 this morning! Yeah, we were dedicated!) so I, unfortunately, don’t have tons of time to write all of my thoughts, but here are the majority of them!

Zone conference!!!!! Agh I loved it so much, and it was the spiritual burst that I really needed! I learned so much! Here are some of my favorite points:

-"To succeed in this work, we need to have a testimony of God, but also of the evil tricks of the adversary. Just don't pray for the second one!" That was a good reality check for me. As much as we build our testimony, what will help it is realizing how Satan tries to lead us away. It’s different for everyone, all of our investigators have different problems: feeling inadequate to ask God questions, addictions, refusing to let go of grudges, etc etc. Getting out of an oblivious bubble and knowing how Satan tries to tempt you and lead you away will create a stronger relationship with Heavenly Father and the joy in His way!

-The adversary can't kill a missionary, but the 2nd best thing that he can do is to bind his tongue. For example, Joseph Smith right before the first vision! Lucifer did all that he could, but it wasn’t enough. I will work will all I have to be the same! When I have the feeling to talk to someone, I show Satan what’s up and go talk to them! 
mazing thoughts on working with the immigrant community. We had an Arabian woman skype in who is a convert and works as an Arabic translator for refugees. She hears all of their stories and it is heart breaking. These people have been through so much and need the gospel to know that Christ can give them so so so much comfort. She said that it’s wrong to think that they come here for a better life, they come here for a safe life. They want to be home too, but this is how it is for now. She also said that this is the safe place that they can receive the gospel, and she is sure that it is God's will! My last favorite thing was talking about women that wear headscarves. She said that they aren't necessarily a religious symbol, but rather like us they want to be modest and they cover what they feel is immodest. She said that these women are so much better to talk to, because they are not indifferent. They have standards too. She asked an amazing rhetorical question: "They believe in being obedient, so what kind of members do you think that they'd make?" Awesome right? They are such sweet women too.

Last thing... This is pretty personal but I will share it. I had a really hard day last week, and it was AMAZING! Yeah that sounds confusing, but I'll explain. I actually don’t know why exactly, but for some reason, lots of things just got to me on Friday. My own inadequacies and weaknesses paired with unfortunately getting frustrated in the faults of others. Hah I’m so not perfect and I’m 3849892% willing to admit that. Well, yeah. The day went on. It got to the point where I just wanted to go home and curl in a ball and not doing anything. I sat on the bus ride home from a bit of contacting and just looked at that picture of you and dad on my tablet. I started to cry... I put absolutely no fault on Grisham, but she isn’t you... You somehow just always know exactly what I need when I’m not happy, and I love you for that! I was just thinking about what you would do in that time I was sad, you wouldn't leave me alone, you would always be there right next to me, ready to talk even if I maybe didn’t want to. Yeah, it was really, really, really hard. Like, I’d consider that 1 of the 2 hardest days yet (I’d say that’s pretty good too!). We ended up getting home and I just went in the bathroom and locked the door and cried. I just prayed and cried and prayed and cried and then did it all over again. I threw out all of my feelings to Heavenly Father, the anger the sadness, the whole pile of it. I probably prayed for close to an hour... I told you that it was amazing because compared to the feeling I had, the wonderful feelings that followed were all the better. I decided to shut my mouth for a second just listen. After a few minutes of just praying that Heavenly Father would talk to me, He did. I felt a rush of peace over my entire body- head to toe. I felt no anger, sadness or any feelings of self-doubt, I felt that He simply loved me. He doesn't want me to stay the same person. He doesn't want me to be a basic missionary who just does what's asked, no he wants me to do even more. He knows what I'm  capable of and He wants to prepare me for eternity, right here and now! I really can’t even describe that immense feeling of peace. I’m so grateful for Heavenly Father, who knows me and loves me. I am His child. Have you ever thought about how profound the simple words "I am a child of God" are? I love Him with all my heart, and I'm also so, so grateful for the gift of the Holy Ghost, that I can learn from Him. Man, we have a really good guy to lean on up there when you can’t just rant everything to your mom.

I love you a million zone conferences Mommy! I will write a longer email next week when I’m not running on 5 hours of sleep! Know that I’m so happy, and I am giving my ALL! I’m so glad you aught me how to work hard.
Love, Sister Macey Ingalls

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